He can’t be the Man

Ladies: Don't you just wish something other than that little small voice in our mind would warn us of the MEN to avoid, the ones we know that are all wrong but for a myriad of reasons we just can't  say NO. 

The fact that he is so FINE, we get lonely and desire male company, need a man's touch, someone to call, someone to say good morning and good night who will give compliments....just "someone”.

These very things kept us clinging on and giving our bodies and sharing our inner most passions and conversations when we know deep inside he is not the one.

It’s Funny how everything cooperates, our hormones still run rapid, our hearts still beat, our mind still fantasizes and our breast and vaginas, well they're still attached to a functioning body . In this world we have only to depend on our self-control because nothing else seems to work with us.

But in a perfect world, our Hearts, our Minds, our Energy, and our Universe would actually help us out...

He can’t be the Man
My lips would curse me forever if I kissed him
My eyes would blind me If I looked into his
I wanted to touch him but my hands would never understand
My heart would beat hysterically with laughter
Saying this can’t be the man

My knees would buckle If there was a romantic stroll on the beach
My patience would vanish
If I waited by the phone
My solitude would surely intrude because His call meant I wouldn’t be alone

I wanted to touch him but my hands would never understand
My brain would vegetate with confusion
Saying this can’t be the man 

My ears would transform me Into a deaf mute upon his words 

My stomach would regurgitate 

The words that my ears just heard 

My lungs would hold my breath 

So that he couldn’t take it away 

My tongue would tie itself in a bind 

So that I’d have nothing to say 

My teeth would rot and fall out 

If I think of his name and smile 

And my smile muscles would stiffen 

And wouldn’t make the thought worthwhile 

My nose would clog up 

So that I couldn’t smell his masculine roaring scent 

Because his scent would awaken all my vital sensitive areas 

That my imagination would resent 

My breast would deflate 

With just an ounce of arousal 

My vagina 

Would dry up like the desert sands 

My body would retreat 

And shut down completely 

Saying this is not the man. 

*I wish you the power to say No when you know you should ... even when it's sooooo hard ;) (Yes, pun intended)

CRUISIN'

My First Cruise! I'm late (Sept. 2013) but I've never shared these photos...not even on Facebook.  

My Mother and I headed to Mexico  (That tan!)

Checking out our activities and getting settled in our Cabin. 

Elevator Glamour ... We don't do swag. 

Checking out the deck, that sun was BEAMING. But the view tho and that's right in my backyard LBC.

Dinner time! We ate with these same people every night. They were super cool! Mike, Sandy and Noe. I said I wouldn't forget them and I didn't.

Stopped off in Catalina... How about that view ! 

On the boat headed to Catalina. 

My little friend. Hiya Pal! Lol 

Pay phone with a credit card... doesn't even look like it works. 

Dinner time again : Salmon, potatoes, veggies. 

Ever had escargot?? I have :)

It was actually very good. Taste kind of like chicken sausage, but w/ that garlic bread OMGG.  

 Our Servers! Hey How Goes It! They Rocked! (yeah that middle one...CRAZY/SILLY/GOOFY every single night!)

Hit up the comedy club. The comic was aiight, he had his moments. 

Do I look happy? Can you tell the waves were on their worse behavior? I was smiling through my nausea.

I definitely got motion sickness, VOMITED and everything. I was sick! Ugh 

That's it Y'all. Next trip I'll take more pics.

*May you find the time and money to GET AWAY for like 10 days and then have 10 EXTRA days off at home, where you can wake up and do whatever you want because you don't have to go to work.

#WCW...... B-ROCKA!

I don't think Brandy understands what her voice does to my heart....it warms it, that's what.

But does she get it! 

Brandy doesn't know what her voice does to another singer. ~India Arie

I'll take this entire ensemble, hair included. Thank you

YEAH B. BLESS THOSE WHO DON'T KNOW YET ... uncut/ unfiltered!

My fave Brandy album "Never Say Never". Guess what? You can listen to the whole thing...RIGHT NOW!!

*May you always know the joy and comfort of feeling safe with a person. Someone with whom you don't have to measure your words or avoid the ugly because you're afraid to be judged. May this person exist in your life until the end.

Relaxing/ Stressless Night

Relaxing Night after work...

1) Pick a movie: Netflix, Redbox, On-Demand etc., TV show(s), Play music, read a book.

       

*(I give this one 2 thumbs down btw. Can't understand the four stars)

2) Pick up some food. Since I had already eaten I chose to pop fresh popcorn, not the microwave stuff :-/ it's more fun that way and taste better annnnd you choose what's on it.

 Tip: Celery Salt is divine on popcorn, better than regular salt .... but I ran out. (a little goes a long way). I pop it using coconut oil and I also use it in place of butter. (A bit healthier) I love it.

3) Need help relaxing? Pick up your favorite wine or relaxing tea, anything warm should do the trick. I chose Chai Tea, it was a gift and I've def been using it :)

*Chai Rooibos from The Coffee Bean... No additives needed, It's soooo good as is.

4) Set the mood with candles, this helps to ease your mind and is a stress reducer. Try some smell good too.

*Pumpkin spice will remind you of food, that's always comforting.

or

*Try an oil burner...I have CoCo Mango from the Farmers market. $5 and I've had it for like 7 months already and I burn at least 3-4 times a week and the candle will go for an hour or so.

5) Grab a blanket and get comfy!

* Wear something confortable as well.

Best ever! Enjoy the night and sleep tight!

* May you have diamond days. You define what that is! 

Baby Shower Flow

Congrats to Claudia and Jaime and Big Sister Melaney! 

She's gonna be a great Big Sis. I remember when she was just a little baby, now she's a big girl. 

She was like "do you still remember me?", "I love your hair"   SO PRECIOUS

Mariachi band poppin! 

Taco Truck on deck. That green sauce...

Who that be? Yeah that be my Petee P. He was feeling right because this guy never smiles on pictures, showing all dem teefs. (All those teeth)

Ah ha ... Well there you have it!

Little Romero, Pete's nephew/ twin. 

Somewhere inside @ the kids table, A Loving Friend doodles my name for no reason and throws in a little Thug Life on a piece of paper, although, P is far from being a thug he's great at being a friend still remains one of my favorite people. 

Back outside... Mariachi break time. DJ working it! 

P having fun with the DJ (cousin). Being his usual Silly Self!

Good times! Can't wait to see that baby.

Btw I was the designated driver...Peter did no driving what so ever... The eyes all low, not on my watch. 

THROW BACK - Elevate/Takami DTLA when P cut ALLLL of his hair off (hair down to his waist). 

*I wish for you to stumble across money, a couple of thousands lying on the ground free for all, no identification tied to it and no one finds it but you.