MCM - Male Crush Mondays

It's been a long time since I had an MCM.

I have to select Denzel Washington! 

To be honest, I was never googley eyed over him unless it was his acting skillz but I saw this and was like Dayyyum!!! He looks great and at 60. he grew out the Goatee....know I love me some scruff LOL.

I've always loved Denzel for his passion and his talent. How can he be denied, he is just great at what he does.

Cheers to this Beautiful Man!!!

Happy Belated Birthday!

Congrats on the cover of GQ!

Dear, Future child(ren) of mine.

Dear, Future Child(ren) of mine -

You WILL know wussup!!! Before you are birthed into this Earth, Mommy will feed into your spirit, nourishment and knowledge, Truth and the opposed as I know and understand it.

You will know the face of REAL beauty and essence of your TRUE nature. I will receive an Authentic King to father you and to become one with me and I pray that foundation will spawn individuals who LOVE unconditionally and defend with organic compassion and ultimately go out into this big beautiful ever evolving metropolis and STAMP it with your light!! Your fingerprint shall leave positivity and love on the hearts and minds of those you come into contact with. You will represent us without unwavering fear and anger and pain that harbors within many people, hindering your abilities to influence, to inspire, to lead, to LOVE, to understand, to accept, to fight, to be loyal, to speak with LOVE.

I will fight for your life, your health, your mind. I will embrace your individualism and teach you what self love requires and when you seek a man/woman to become unified with, I pray that you see their value and significance. Never judge your present and future with voices from the past. Grasp events that challenge your ability, see things and people for who and what they are and believe them even if your heart says something else...you can approach with LOVE but don't be foolish and don't act foolishly, you will grow from it. Hurt is inevitable and so is disappointment and let downs but so is joy, peace, and LOVE.  I say inevitable because that is life, but I will sow those seeds of victory, I will claim it  for your life.

You will have a sense of humor. Laughter is healing, you need fun times in a world so serious and filled with evil and hard times. Not every moment warrants play but most of your life should be filled with happiness and doing what you love. According to your blood line, you're going to have a goofy side.

 I will be honest with you about life, As my mother was with me. I will keep you in as much of the light as possible or as you are ready for according to your maturity level and whatever amount information you can comprehend.

I will give you freedom to make mistakes and be there when you can't get past it or feel you haven't learned from it.

I will give you full credit and not limit you, I believe your capabilities will go far beyond understanding. I will encourage you and push when needed. We live in a world of endless possibilities and we will not stop you from being the best and being everything you can be.

GROW!

LOVE!

Have PEACE!

FIGHT with dignity for what you believe in!

Live in TRUTH!

Have COMPASSION!

EAT HEALTHY and EXERCISE!

RESPECT women/men!

Be faithful, attentive, affectionate, respectful and honest to your PARTNER!

Be LOYAL!

Be a LEADER!

Use PROPER GRAMMAR!

Know when to say NO and YES!

GIVE to those in need!

Be NICE!

SMILE because someone may need it

GO after your DREAMS!

SAVE your money!

Do not engage in unhealthy SEXUAL practices.

Be RESPONSIBLE!

Do NOT be vengeful/spiteful.

Seek RESOLUTIONS and if none can be obtained, find a way to adjust.

Be HONEST with people.

EMOTE and own your emotions but do not wallow.

Do NOT fear Rejection.

Listen to GOD and talk in prayer about anything and everything. That time is for you.

KNOW, MOMMY is always HERE.

Believe in YOURSELF

Always AIM high

BELIEVE in the powers of the UNIVERSE.

Be the KING/QUEEN that you are. 

Be wonderful!

The man you date should ....

To the good women in the world, you deserve a man who has it all. He could be a writer, a runner or an investment banker for all I care. Just date a man who has all the qualities you want in a partner. This isn’t a dating checklist by any means. It’s just a catalyst to get you thinking about the type of man with whom you want to be. The right man for you is out there, so don’t settle. Be patient.

1) The man you date should surprise you, fascinate you and make you smile. This man should make you better. Date a man who travels. Date a man who will climb mountains, surfs waves and who likes to explore. Date a man who is interested in other cities, cultures and the world. A man who travels will have an open mind and isn’t afraid to experience new things. This sense of adventure will translate into your relationship.

2) Date a man who is comfortable with who he is. This man will be confident in himself and won’t need you to tell him every day that they're handsome because he already knows he is.

3) Date a man who isn’t afraid to show you who he is. This man will be easy to wake up next to and make you feel comfortable.

4) Date a man who is smart. He doesn’t need to have a degree in neuroscience, but date a man who can carry an intellectual conversation about something for which he is passionate. This man will challenge you and make you think. You will always be fascinated by what he has to say.

5) Date a man who has his own hobbies. They don’t need to be your hobbies, as it is good if you have different interests.

6) Date a man who has many things in his life that define him.

7) Date a man who is interesting.

8) Date a man who has a bit of an edge and isn’t afraid to show it. Maybe he’s a little quirky or weird, but let’s be honest, you are, too. His differences are what set him apart from everyone else.

9) Date a man who has goals. He doesn’t need to have it all figured out. Actually, it’s better if he doesn’t. But, date a man who has a clear idea of whom he wants to be in the future. He might not be there yet, but he is on the right path.

10) Date a man who lives his life to the fullest. This man won’t need to go out on extravagant dates; he will have fun doing just about anything with you.

11) Date a man who appreciates the little things in your relationship. He will treasure the time he gets to spend with you.

12) Date a man who makes you laugh out loud. Maybe it’s his corny jokes or that he’s not afraid to call you out on your corny jokes, but you can always count on his to lighten the mood.

13) Date a man who also understands and appreciates your sense of humor. His laugh will be the best medicine.

14) Date a man who is curious and who loves to learn. He will ask many questions, but his curiosity will allow him to get to know you in a way that nobody else ever has. He will become your best friend.

15) Most importantly, date a man who makes you better. Amongst him being on a path to fulfill his own hopes and dreams, he will be your biggest supporter. This man will surprise you every single day with his kindness and generosity. And, if you ever need anything, he will be there for, you without hesitation. He will let you in and help you discover the amazing person you are. He will inspire you to not only be a better partner, but also a better human being. When you find a man who makes you better, keep him close and treat him well. He deserves it and so do you.


~I didn't write this, I thought it presented some means to thinking of a potential mate.