What I find really sexy about men!

SEXY MAN 

 HANDS - Clean, SHORT Clean nails, somewhat soft looking, a little TLC goes a long way.

GRAY HAIRED MEN - I don't know what it is, but it's sooo attractive.

Perhaps it's a reflection of age, which could be wisdom...idk.

It's Sexy!

 

BRACES -  Especially if you're over 30...it's so HOT!!

HANDS on the FACE KISS - Do that every single time, it's romantic, it's endearing, it's just sexy! You should never not do that.

SCRUFF! - I love a scruffy man. But, wait but there needs to be a bit of grooming with the scruff. Don't just let it sprout weeds. 

TALL MEN - For some reason, just because you're tall I still find you HOT. Then I have to come back to reality and say "Girl....He is only height!"  LOL

CLEAN SNEAKERS - You could be like on some I just rolled out of bed or I'm working on the car today outfit but if you have on a fresh pair of sneakers, SEXY! Then I'm like "the lounge look is intentional." I never had a boyfriend who didn't wear fresh kicks, ever.

FRESH OUT OF THE SHOWER SMELL - I'm not huge on cologne and men smother themselves with it and in my mind I'm just like "Dayyyyuumm" Sinuses start acting up. Not this girl. I'd rather you smell like soap. Don't get me wrong, Cologne still does something to me but I prefer soapy.

CONSCIOUS MEN - This should be first, however this isn't in sequential order. I saw THIS clip (just one of many)and was brought to my feet. What if all men were like that....what if all black men (not necessarily thinks the same but is strong in his speech and thoughts). Ooooh!! 100% FIRE! SEXY! I think MX represent what a conscious man is, he has strong beliefs and understanding of life, he cares about his people and his drive is incredible and he is never apologetic for fighting for what he believes in. He speaks well,he reads books, he's educated (self or schooling) and not easily led astray. being conscious often times create discipline and respect for self and others and their woman, women in general and rules out weaknesses. He cares about how he represents himself. When a man offers enlightenment and starts dropping profoundness and knowledge....I'm instantly in heaven. THE BEST THING EVER!!

 FUNNY/SILLY - What's better than a sense of humor? What's better than a man making me ROFLMBO???? I love laughing and a funny man appears differently in my eyes almost all the time from the initial impression.  

GLASSES - NERD ALERT!!  I love hipsterish, nerdish, library-going, book -toting kind of guys.... looking the part is what makes it SEXY!!!

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My Boy Thay - Praying for him!

Thich Nhat Hanh

What a blessed soul. His book has changed my life in so many ways and on so many levels.

He is currently facing an illness and is getting very old. He had a brain hemorrhage and is under doctors care. I send forth my love and energy of healing and pray for his full recovery.

He has touched and changed so many lives and perhaps we have to accept that one day his time will come as shall all of ours and his work here on this earth was nothing short of wonderful and I will always remember him for that.

~Blessing and Healing Mr. Thay!  

Kool and the Gang

So I spent nearly a month trying to figure out this song. I heard it on the radio and I was jamming to it.

However, by the time I got home I had forgotten the words to look it up.

All I could remember was "You're the one, the one for me..." that was it...nothing. I didn't know the group name, if they were black, the era, not one single other word.

I would sing it to my peeps and nobody else could figure it out either.

Tho, highly frustrated, I was determined to find out what this song was.

So one day I was all in the KTG mix and one song kinda sounded similar to the one that I was looking for and there was that light bulb! Ahhhhh! It was Joanna.

Anyway, they are my favorite group right now. This changes but for now it's KTG time.

 #ILoveMusic